Did you know that sexual stuff is given its own day of the year to celebrate? We didn’t. But now we’re hearing all about them. Apparently, there’s a ‘Steak and Blowjob Day’, a ‘Holy Shit Your Pecs and Penis Got Bigger Day’, and even a ‘Man-vember Day’. How hilarious is that? And now we’ve learned something even more exciting—for us women, at least. Mark this one in your calendars, friends because April 11 is—WAIT FOR IT!—officially National Cake and Cunnilingus Day. Woohoo! Now you’ve got a pretty solid reason to demand oral satisfaction all day long, as well as some sugar and spice on the side.
Surprisingly and according to a mini survey conducted by leading pleasure brand LELO, 96% of women admitted loving oral sex, yet many have never heard the term ‘cunnilingus’. A further 60% regularly reach orgasm by oral stimulation alone, so what better time to grab your partner, reach for the torte and get your rocks off with a whole day dedicated to the very art.
This is your day to take advantage. National Cake and Cunnilingus Day is the opportunity to have a bit of fun, relax and really explore the female orgasm. You really can have your cake and eat it, so do it! Here’s LELO’s guide to getting it right.
For Him and Her: 6 Ways to Enjoy Cunnilingus
Learn the Basics
Where does the Cake in Cunnilingus and Cake Day come from? There is no evidence to suggest that cake plays any significant part in this day. The term is really the female version of the much known ‘steak and blowjob day’. Well, if it is good enough for him, it is good enough for her, right? Saying this, chocolate is known for its aphrodisiac qualities so reach for the double choc brownies, lie back and enjoy the show.
Start Cake-sitting (it is really a thing)!
One way to incorporate the ‘cake’ celebrations of the day, is to practice the art of ‘cake sitting’ – a trendy and fairly new sexual fetish enjoyed by many. Start by bare bottomed, ‘cake sitting’ to create a wet and messy scene, then lie back and let him lick the ahem plate clean. Fun, tasty and full of pleasure.
Focus on the right positions
Combine a few simple positions when giving cunnilingus that will bring your partner a divine pleasure. Forget the missionary positions and come to her from the rear or let her sit on you face. You can also try with legs up, backward, the standing 69 or the doggy style that can easily be transformed into analingus too!
Do some teasing and relaxing
Don’t go straight for her clitoris, but rather build the desire inside her first.
You can kiss her neck, lips and her skin making your way down to her breasts. You’ll hear her breathing and you’ll know when is the right time to ‘dive in’ with your tongue. Use a blindfold to heighten the other senses and there’s no reason why your cake of choice can’t be incorporated.
Participate in role play
Role playing allows couples to brighten their sexuality and explore a fantasy world outside the norm. Pay homeage to this calendar day and take the role playing to the kitchen. Try a sexy scenario with the naked chef mixing up a storm in the kitchen, and partake in some tasting sessions together, before making your way down to final base!
Go ahead and do it yourself
For those flying solo, LELO’s SONA™ Cruise clitoral massager is the perfect alternative and will ensure all the pleasure, without the partner.
This sweet little sonic massager stimulates 75% more of the clitoris than any other massager and when used with one hand, leaves the other free to feed yourself cake so no one need miss out on this special day.
