OK, we’re going there: Just how turned on were you by 50 Shades of Grey? Next question: Now that submissive is sexy (and officially out of hiding under the covers for good), do you want some of that? If you do, there’s no reason you can’t create it–right in your own bedroom.

According to sexologist Jaiya, author of the new book Cuffed, Tied and Satisfied, the fact that many women get turned on by the thought of surrendering to pleasure is not exactly news. What we want to know, though, is what’s the best way to spice up your love life? Sure, you can take some sexy pics of each other. But how about playing some kinky games? The best ones create a safe space to play to your edges because they contain the Passion Trifecta: Mystery, Obstacle and a little bit of Naughtiness! 

Not quite sure where your edges are exactly but think you may be ready to explore them? Never mind the fact that the sheets have been kinda cold lately. Get cozy with your lover and read on together.

5 Kinky Games That Will Leave You Feeling Sexy and Submissive

First step is to set up the rules, and make sure that everyone is clear on them before you play.

Examples:

  • You cannot speak unless you ask permission to
  • If you need to stop the session and check in, say Yellow
  • You cannot look at me, but you must keep your eyes open at all time
  • You cannot touch me
  • You cannot move

Next, set up the rewards and punishments.

Rewards

  • A Sexual Favor
  • A Massage
  • A Gift

Punishments

  • Being Ignored
  • Spankings
  • Having to stand in the corner facing the wall
  • Game is over

Next page: Our favourite KINKY GAMES!

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